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Is anyone out there?

Fluttergirl started this conversation

Is there any one out there reading my words? I read all the posts on this site and it seems as though we are all looking for help, with no one looking to help all of us. If I am ever in a financial situation to help others I will make sure that woman like me, the ones with the bruises on the inside, get taken just as seriously as all the other abused women.............................

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justinekase

Hi there,

Each of us here is hurting in one way or another, I just saw your post and it makes me very sad. Tell me the area where you are, becuse I do know of some places that DO assist women, teens and little children even though the abuse is verbal. That ype of abuse in the legal world is called "Terroristic Threats", it is real and very dangerous. There are many places and IF a Battered Womens Shelter told you they cannot assist you I would like to know 1) whichplace it is, 2) the name of the person and their title, because it is against the law to turn you awway. If you do not mind me asking these questions I will dirrect you to groups that can help. These shelters are there to assist women so they do not subject themselves to this form of abuse, they help train you for jobs, if you have children they also assit while you are being trained, counseling so you do not get in this situation again, so you begin to build your self esteem.  I will not go into my history of how I know these things but just know, I have been there and was in hiding for two years because of abuse. Sometimes I still have bad dreams, sometimes I am just plain scared to trust people, but I am healing and G-D has protected me even when I did not ask. Let me know, and we shall see what we can do.

I will be praying for you!

 

Your Friend, justinekase.

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ibotter

Yes, on this site we are all hurting in one way or another.  This site is mainly for helpful suggestions and words of comfort, all of which I have received.  I, too, if ever I find myself in a strong enough financial position will remember these times and will try to reach out and help, expecially to women and children because when we consider it from a historical point of view, were rather late in the timeline to move into positions of power and money that would enable us to stand alone without the help of a husband or "Daddy."  I feel your pain as I have been told that had I never left a mainly verbally abusive relationship. I would not be in the mess I am in.  When it got physical, I hit the door, wanting out so bad and rather cleanly I took nothing but my car and some clothes.  Silly me????   (Please forgive the run on sentences since things are getting rather emotional in my neck of the woods.)  

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